
NMLS #119565 · Highland Mortgage
Southport & Oak Island's Trusted Mortgage Advisor For Over 20 Years
Hyper-local mortgage expertise across Southport, Oak Island, St. James Plantation, and the entire coastal Carolina market, purchase, refinance, build, and invest with confidence.
Quick Start
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Same-day pre-approval letters. No credit pull required to start.
Hyper-local in Southport & Oak Island
Roughly 75% of David's business is closed in Southport and Oak Island. He knows the appraisers, attorneys, insurance agents, and POA boards on a first-name basis.
Treated like family
Every client gets David's direct cell, weekly updates, and an honest opinion, even when the answer is 'wait.'
Education over sales
Plain-English breakdowns of programs, payments, and trade-offs so you make the right decision the first time.

Meet your advisor
David Starling, the mortgage expert Wilmington homebuyers trust.
For more than twenty years, David has guided Wilmington families through every step of buying, refinancing, building, and investing in real estate. As Branch Manager and Senior Mortgage Consultant with Highland Mortgage, he's built a practice on a simple principle: treat every client like family, and the rest takes care of itself.
Where 75% of David's business closes
Hyper-local in Southport & Oak Island.
David Starling closes loans in Southport and Oak Island week after week, more than any other markets he serves. From St. James Plantation new construction to canal-front Oak Island second homes and DSCR-backed short-term rentals, he knows the appraisers, attorneys, insurance carriers, and POA boards by name.
Brunswick County · Historic Riverfront
Southport, NC
Historic waterfront homes, St. James Plantation, and one of the strongest 55+ and relocation markets on the southern NC coast. David has structured conventional, jumbo, VA, construction, and reverse mortgages across every Southport neighborhood for two decades.
- St. James Plantation POA pre-review before you go under contract
- Real wind, hail & flood insurance quotes during pre-approval
- Remote pre-approval & closing for out-of-state relocators
- Reverse, asset-depletion & bank-statement qualifying for 62+ buyers
Brunswick County · 10 Miles of Atlantic Beach
Oak Island, NC
Second-home, jumbo, investment, and DSCR loans across Caswell Beach, Yaupon Beach, Long Beach, and the canals. David structures the right loan type based on how you actually plan to use the property, primary, second-home, traditional investment, or DSCR.
- Flood-zone (X / AE / VE) review before you write your offer
- Second-home vs investment vs DSCR structured around your real use
- Construction-to-perm & renovation for tear-down-rebuilds
- 21 to 30 day closes with weekly milestone updates
Loan programs, simplified.
From your first home in Castle Hayne to a Wrightsville Beach jumbo, David has the right loan and the experience to close it on time.
Purchase
Home Purchase Loans
Buying a primary residence anywhere from Leland to Wrightsville Beach.
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First-Time Home Buyer Loans
Low-down-payment programs and education for first-time Wilmington buyers.
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VA Loans
Zero-down, no-PMI financing for veterans, active-duty, and surviving spouses.
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FHA Loans
Flexible credit and 3.5% down financing backed by the Federal Housing Administration.
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Conventional Loans
Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac loans for primary, second-home, and investment buyers.
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Jumbo Loans
Financing above conforming limits, common for Wrightsville Beach, Figure Eight, and Porters Neck.
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USDA Loans
Zero-down financing in eligible rural and outer-suburban areas.
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Investment Property Loans
Long-term rental, BRRRR, and portfolio financing for Wilmington-area investors.
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Bank Statement Loans
Qualify based on 12, 24 months of business bank deposits instead of tax returns.
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DSCR Loans
Investor loans that qualify on the rent the property generates, no tax returns required.
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Construction Loans
One-time-close construction-to-perm loans for custom builds.
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Refinancing
Rate-and-term, cash-out, and consolidation refinances.
Explore RefinancingLocal expertise across coastal Carolina.
Insurance, flood zones, HOA reviews, school districts, David knows what changes the math from one Wilmington-area zip code to the next.
What clients say.
"David made our first home purchase in Leland feel effortless. He answered every text and call, even on weekends."
"We were nervous about a jumbo loan for our Wrightsville Beach home. David structured three options and explained each one in plain English."
"Twenty years from now I'll still be sending friends to David. He treats people like family."
Wilmington Mortgage Learning Center
Plain-English guides for buyers, owners, and investors across coastal Carolina.
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Programs, timelines, and pitfalls every first-time Wilmington buyer should know.
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A practical look at Wilmington's cost of living from a mortgage and homeownership lens.
Read article →VA Loan Guide for Wilmington Veterans
Everything a Wilmington-area veteran needs to know about using the VA loan benefit.
Read article →Know your number before you fall in love.
Model your full Wilmington payment, including taxes, insurance, and HOA, in under a minute.
Wilmington mortgage questions, answered.
Don't see your question? Call David directly, most answers take 5 minutes.

